jhopper2003 asked:


I am not feeling so good this morning, this is after i caught my wife talking to another guy at all times of the night and the day by text message, e-mail and sometimes by phone about 3 months ago i confronted her and she basically blamed it on me, she told me she didn’t feel i loved her anymore cause i did not pay enough attention to her but i do love her. I went to hug her and she said see that don’t even fell right or good at all, we talk and she did not think we could be back to where we were in the past. so this went on till about a couple of weeks ago and she started acting funny again and it is hard to get her to talk to me, i finally ask her this morning why she won’t talk to me very much when i tried to talk to her her answer was i don’t know and when i do try to love on her it is a struggle and that was her biggest problem before, she just kinda kisses me fast and turns her head and tries to walk past me and she doesn’t even smile at all anymore, i can see a little bit of a change in her. I have tried to make it better but it seems to be getting worse. I have been stressed out for a while now and i don’t think i can take it anymore i try not to bring it to work, but i can’t avoid the thought of filing for divorce, i know i am not perfect, but i do try to be a good husband and father., but it is going down hill fast and she won’t go get counseling i have asked her to the first time it started to get bad we are not getting along very good and i am thinking about leaving to let her know i mean buisness… Can anyone help me?
Thanks
I am telling you guys she will not go to marrigage counsling, she doesn’t think we need it. She just acts like she has lost love for me. she said here a while back that she thinks we got married to early. She has also been married and divorced once before and ashe said it was all him so go figure. I have done so much for her for the past 2.5 yrs we have been married. I can’t get over how she is acting i even let her go out with her friends to the bar and to the mall with out asking any questions about where and when she will be back. she went out the other weekend and she got home around 5:20 A.M and i asked her just to see if she would tell the truth about when she got hom and she said about 4:00 A.M and of course i did not sayanything about her lying to me i just let it go. Maybe i amo nice and she is taking advantage of me.
Our littel girl is 18 months old and i love her to death, maybe that is some of the reason i have not left or done anything yet.

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