Breaking up is always the hardest thing to do because it will crush not only your heart but also your boyfriend’s. Although breaking up itself is painful, we still try to find the most subtle way to say “it’s over”. This will somehow ease your boyfriend’s pain caused by the breakup.

Many ways of breaking up can be learned everywhere, including the internet. Unfortunately, not all are competent enough to handle such situation. No one wants to be the bad guy when relationships end. We all want to be able to be happy and we want the person that we once cared for deeply (maybe even loved) to be happy as well. Sometimes though, we reach a point where we realize that the person we are with is not the right one.

** Don’t try to make him break up with you. While on the surface it may seem like a great idea it simply prolongs the inevitable and can build up some major resentment in the process. A clean break where the two of you have something left for each other when things are over is the best. I’m sure you’ve seen girls that have done this before and it rarely works out well. There’s no reason to see just how much abuse he’ll take before he calls things off when you can salvage your self respect and his dignity by skipping this altogether.

** A pile of insult and badmouthing is always the problem during a breakup. Although it is very difficult not to tell him his faults, refrain from doing it as much as possible. Hold your tongue from throwing harsh words at him as long as you can.

** Choose a day that’s not special or significant for him or for you. No one wants to be dumped during his birthday. Be considerate by not ruining his special day just because you want to break up with him. Do not make him hate the day he was born.

Initiating the breakup with honesty and kindness will somehow ease up the pain your boyfriend will feel during that moment. Say what you have to say but be careful of each word you let go. End up the relationship with dignity.

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