The struggle for human rights is an ongoing fight well worth fighting. Men often joke about marriage being legalize male slavery, but often the opposite has been reality. Many women have suffered terrible abuses in the name of marriage.

The world is smaller today than ever before. If something happens in Asia, it appears within minutes in our own homes. A murder in Orlando, touches families in Spokane almost instantly. The pressures of oppression and the thirst for freedom meet at our kitchen tables day after day. We are all affected.

Think about your own marriage. Is there conflict over decision making, who is in charge, or feelings of neglect? Do the forces of oppression touch your home? Are there abuses? Or is your marriage and home untouched by these forces?

I have good news. The forces of oppression and marital bondage are not necessary. They do no even belong in our marriages. Here are some principles that can really help your marriage.

Rule one: Man and woman are intended to share life. The creation story states that woman was made from the rib of man. Woman was not made from a foot, a hand, or the head; but from the side. This establishes the principle of equality and mutuality.

Principle B: Marriages flourish when led by husbands of integrity, industry, and sensitivity. Good leadership lifts the whole family. The husband needs to project a vision of family mission and set the pace toward achieving that dream. With compassion and a listening ear, the husband willingly sacrifices his own welfare for the benefit of his marriage and family and their mutual mission.

This leadership includes obligations to protect his wife and family from all manner of dangers. There are thieves, robbers, gangs, enemies, and evil forces that threaten the family. The husband is charged with the responsibility of protection from all threats.

Concept three: Man is expected to provide sustenance for his wife and family. He is to provide food, clothing, and shelter for his family. Man must be willing to give his best efforts, hard work, and be willing to sacrifice himself for the benefit of his wife and family. This does not mean that wives are exempted from work. It only means that the husband is ultimately responsible. A wife who really helps her husband is a treasure beyond consideration.

Rule D: Companionship is the mission of a wife. Her duty is to join her husband to mutually pursue the dreams of marriage and family. Honor, respect, and assistance are the wife’s critical contribution. She needs to willingly give herself to meet her husband’s most basic needs.

An abusive husband may abuse his wife, but a beloved wife freely shares her life, gives her love, and sacrifices herself for the welfare of her marriage and family. Giving always blesses. Giving always uplifts. Giving always blesses. Giving always strengthens marriages.

Subjection and oppression ruin marriages. Dictatorial tyranny destroys. A man who behaves in such a way, cripples his marriage. On the other hand, a husband who loves his wife will listen intently to her and respond with self sacrificing generosity. A wife who truly loves her husband will honor his efforts, encourage and respect him, and stand with him against all the pressures of the world.

When husband fulfills his role as defined by these Biblical principles, the marriage and family are blessed.

Marriages thrive when wives dedicate themselves to their husbands standing with them and for them.

Your wedding can launch a dynamic marriage, and your marriage can be rock solid if you grab hold of the principles, resources, and tools available to you through the resource links below.

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