Just broken up? This is how to make your ex love you again. Actually, before I start I have to say that your ex most likely is still in love with you, unless you split up years and years ago. Feelings of love run deep and it take a long time for them to completely disappear.

Right then, you can make your ex love you again by not talking with them. I know that doesn’t sound right, but trust me on this one..

Why you shouldn’t contact your ex after a break-up for thirty days:

* It gives the pair of you time and space to consider your positions. If you can start this off with not too many tears or arguments and appear cool and calculated about the choice not to contact your ex, you will immediately be at an advantage.

Why is this? It is because your ex will never expect such a thing. You will then come across as a really sensible person with everyone’s best interests at heart.

* You need a bit of time to work on your own feelings and feel good again. One of the best ways to get back on track after a split is to get out and socialize. You will have new experiences and feel more confident. Buy some new clothes and get fit and healthy and it will make you feel a whole lot more positive.

* You get to think about what actually happened to make you split up. From there you can look at working on solutions. This activity cannot be done in a day or two.

* It gives you time to work on your plan. This is only the beginning of the process of how to make your ex love you again. Once you have managed to break contact and get over the initial shock of the break-up you can continue to work out an overall strategy. Don’t rely on fate as there is a good chance you will lose them.