Any body got any free marriage advice-what’s the #1 thing you would adise me?
Gracie asked:
I am a newlywed and I need some marriage advice, please anything you have to say will be appreciatied.
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Ted B said,
December 14, 2008 @ 10:44 pm
be good to your man.
tucksie said,
December 18, 2008 @ 6:05 am
Honesty and fidelity in both.
Joe Dirt said,
December 21, 2008 @ 3:07 pm
Do let things so stale in the bedroom.. he will look elsewhere for luvin!!
cope_acetic@yahoo.com said,
December 23, 2008 @ 2:21 am
Just this—
As soon as there is an issue, bring it out in the open, and talk it over!! NEVER let things bottled up until they grow & fester.
Good luck to you.
aisha l said,
December 24, 2008 @ 11:14 am
don’t annoy him
OOO! I know! I know! said,
December 26, 2008 @ 9:55 am
“Don’t let the sun go down on your anger.” (Don’t go to bed without getting problems resolved.)
acmeraven said,
December 28, 2008 @ 10:02 am
Keep a checking and savings account in your name and make sure you check on your own credit rating and file periodically. Watch your finances as most men are totally inept; I have done tax returns for 36 years and speak from experience.
jt said,
December 30, 2008 @ 10:55 am
Honesty and complete open communication. It sounds repetitive, but if you are open, honest and respect each other, everything else will fall into place.
naughtykitty94 said,
December 30, 2008 @ 3:00 pm
TALK to him…about everything…communication has been key in my marriage (married 15 years and still going strong) Good Luck!!
marypaz said,
January 2, 2009 @ 10:42 am
Marriage is a lot of work, but so much fun. You two need to put all childish behaviors away and help eachother any which way you can. Put any stubborn, hard headed intentions out the door because they will never get anywhere. Talk about everything, since communication is the key. Trust and be truthful, love and be loved, give your heart to your better half and have a wonderful blessed time!
Also, never go to bed angry! Always resolve your problems right away, otherwise they will eat at you and your relationship!
Congratulations. I wish you many years of love and happiness!
Puneet S said,
January 3, 2009 @ 9:22 am
Keep things pleasant and exciting – small acts of happiness, love and, well, sexyness go a long way. Keep good hygiene and smell good. Never lie.
jenn w said,
January 5, 2009 @ 12:45 pm
yayy! i’m a newlywed too! i’ve found that it’s best to just love the person and go out of your way to show it every day. complaining, on the whole, doesn’t help a relationship. they find us a lot more sexy when we’re going out of our way to show them that we love them instead of griping about stuff that we could easily do…
i’ve found that in arguments, it’s harmless to realize that you care more about the person than you do the thing you’re arguing about. it makes me a lot more happy when i know that he’s happy, so i do my best to not argue.
jd said,
January 9, 2009 @ 12:21 am
Be understanding , be there even in the bad times too. spend time together , quality time. realize the friend you have in each other and don’t let that friendship stop growing. trust and never betray one’s trust.
bibliophile31 said,
January 11, 2009 @ 9:53 pm
The best advice anyone ever game ME was to remember that you and your husband are a TEAM. Work together for the common good of both of you. When I am ticked off because he gets to go out every Thursday and play poker with his friends (and none of my friends can get away from their families on a weeknight), I try to remind myself that we’re a team, and I’m happy that at least one of us is getting to go out and have fun.
Ha. Was that convincing? I really am ticked at him a lot for his poker night.
Happy Girl said,
January 12, 2009 @ 2:07 am
Hi Gracie, be on the same page when it comes to money. That’s a biggie. Make sure he doesn’t have a history of past molestation charges against him. And make sure he isn’t a gas station attendant….
Ness said,
January 13, 2009 @ 12:50 pm
be honest with each other and always keep the lines of communication open. Do not go to bed angry, and remember, do not argue over small things. They will not be important tomorrow.
t-bags said,
January 13, 2009 @ 7:36 pm
never look for your sufficient other to define you…love you more……treat him like you would like him to treat you. fu** him, suck him, feed him, communicate openly and honestly..
Grudge said,
January 16, 2009 @ 10:23 pm
You always hear that communication is key. But, we (my wife and me did not learn until later how to communicate. In short, you must talk about the things that are in your life. For example, make a specific time to discuss finances: new purchases, bills, money, etc. Only talk about finances at that time. It is okay to bring it up other times if it is an emergency, but make the appointment for the “Business Meeting” and stick to it. Then, make dates to keep the romance alive. This becomes especially important after you have kids. But, on your dates, don’t discuss business. Keep the romance alive. Since me and my wife started doing this, we’ve cut down on the friction an awful lot. Good Luck!
keithy said,
January 17, 2009 @ 5:03 pm
give him the same treatment that u want. if u want a loving caring man then be the same. example if he brings u flowers then respond by doing something nice and sweet for him, if he like sweets make him a homemade cake or pie. also don’t pull the usuall bait and switch in the bedroom. in the 50’s and 60’s when the divorce rate was low there was a saying for women and it is this: a woman has to be a lady in public and a complete slut (porn star) in the bedroom. if you do these things he will never fall outa love with u and never loose interest. i know cuz both my wives did not do these things and as far as the sex i did go else were after they kept saying no to anything i wanted
Larry F said,
January 20, 2009 @ 3:20 am
#1 Rule: DO NOT NAG!!!