Maria/Albert V asked:


They say many people never meet that one….I was lucky though cause I met the man of my dreams on November 17,2005. It was a very exciting day January 1, 2007 that was the day we got married ! I thought I am so lucky to have someone like him to spend the rest of my life with ! Everything was going like I imagined, we got our own place, and the married life was good. Everything was going too good though, but I know in real life nothing is perfect. We are having problems right now, financial problems, and it has really affected our relationship. I dont want to be dumb and end up having a divorce. I love my husband, and that day that we said our vows I meant it all and I want to continue living my life with him by my side. My feelings towards him haven’t changed I still love him to death and would do anything for him, Im just scared that ouf financial problem will ruin our marriage. I cant imagine living without him. The problem has gotten so bad that im thinking about moving back in with my parents maybe we just need some time off to think about a solution. Because the longer we stay living together, im afraid we will end up saying something to each other that will make us break up, my husband has said so many things to me that have really hurt my feelings, I understand he’s mad and frustrated about the whole situation. Thats why I think its best if we live seperatly for a while, it will give us some time to think. Sometimes I think maybe its all my fault, I am 4 years younger than him, but I dont think that makes me dumb. He tells me I dont make sense and then he questions why I leave sometimes. How could someone live with a person who’s always calling them immature or stupid. I wonder if he would talk to his ex girlfriends like that too. I don’t want to break up with him that is the last thing on my mind, but i just want him to understand that maybe we need to be away from each other livingwise for a while. I don’t regret marrying him or anything else we’ve been through and accomplished, but I hate the way he talks to me and makes me feel. He finds everything funny like it’s some kind of joke and I dont think our life is a joke but if he feels that way thats probably why things aren’t going so good right now. It seems like we are more comfortable when we are apart, my in-laws have had a lot to do with it too. I dont think he is ready to let go of his parents. I don’t want him to loose touch with them or anything I just want him to put me first since I am his wife. Also i think i may be pregnant. Does anyone have any advice for me?

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basketballgirl asked:


I am turning 17 in August. My boyfriend is turning 17 in July. We’ve been together for 3 years & 4 months. Totally in love with each other. He has a great job…and is going to be a welder…so..we will be ok on money and all that stuff. BUT the problem is….my mom is totally freaked out about me and him. I barely see him twice a month. And when we hang out…she flips! His parents are totally understanding and treats us like mature adults…which we have both been raised as. The topic of marriage came up last night because it would totally make both of our lives easier…to be able to be together without my parents flipping out. My boyfriend has made a promise to hisfamily…especially to his dad…..that he is going to take care of me…and that he is a man…and will do whatever it takes to support and be with me…. BUT…I was wondering if any of you have any advice for me?

P.S.- We will be moving to Az after I turn 18 cause I graduate when I am 17.
Ok…well, my plans are possibly holding off on marriage…BUT we figured…one day we will get married. I will go to college….he will help pay for it through his Native American tribe in Az. WE already know each other…we used to spend everyday with each other…until we moved to another state…and live in seperate towns. (This is our first year “apart”.) He is different…..all he wants is a family…some one there for him…and I feel the same. I know I am young….yet…I feel so old. I have played the “mother” figure in my house..raising siblings and cousin. He was played the “father” figure…having to support and raise his siblings. We don’t agure….at all. BUT thanks for all the advice.

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?Dawn? asked:


For me, it was when I asked my husband if he wanted me to fix him a plate while at a friend’s get together.
The advice she gave me was:
Never do anything that you don’t want to do for the rest of your life.
Best or funniest, I should say.

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holla asked:


Who/what is the best marriage advice you have gotten?

*Or what experience has influnced you the most for a better marriage

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