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I’ve had the most wonderful love affair with my husband for the past 12 years and counting!
About 2 years ago we decided to bring some adventure to our marriage by finding unusual things for us and WOW is all I can say!

But hears the PROBLEM, we put a bunch of suggestion in a bag and withdrew one for us to do this year we drew KNITTING so we took classes together for the past year now and both of us have had a fun at it!

Our final class was last week and doing 2 projects on our own we had to make it with all the fundamental of what we learned!

I made a a sweater and blanket and got an A for it!
My husband made a pair of panties and a bra, the instructor saw what he made she said she could not give him credit until they were shown, her idea was to put them on the BUST, his idea was to have me model them, I did soft fabric yarn too god they felt so good he got an A+, and that night we had the most increasable SEX should I be ashamed because I’d like him to knit more for me?
He fashioned both pices after the victoria secret design af boy the fit life a glove and FEELS SO GOOD!

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Joanna S asked:


I have recently just gotten married and don’t want it to end up like the 50% of the people out there. So i want to ask what is your secret to a long live of happiness together?

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joey322 asked:


i want to start out by saying that my husband and i have a really great marriage. we love each other, we are committed to each other. things are good.
i am just experiencing a little speed bump and i’m not sure how to communicate to him what i need…..

without getting into too much detail, here’s the situation.

there are times when things will weigh me down and i’ll get upset. then, i try to tell him how i’m feeling, but instead of being receptive and caring, he’ll try to make jokes and make light of the situation.
i realize it’s a mechanism he uses b/c me being upset makes him uncomfortable and he doesn’t know how to deal with it….
however, understanding that doesn’t erase the fact that it stings when he does this….kind of makes me feel like he doesn’t care when i get upset.

anyone ever have to overcome this with their spouse? how did you get them to turn off the humor and turn on the empathy?
p.s.

dont’ get me wrong…i LOVE my husband’s sense of humor. we have a LOT of fun and laughter in our house. it’s not a bad thing at all…..i just need him to “turn it off” sometimes.

thanks everyone….in advance:)

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jhopper2003 asked:


I am not feeling so good this morning, this is after i caught my wife talking to another guy at all times of the night and the day by text message, e-mail and sometimes by phone about 3 months ago i confronted her and she basically blamed it on me, she told me she didn’t feel i loved her anymore cause i did not pay enough attention to her but i do love her. I went to hug her and she said see that don’t even fell right or good at all, we talk and she did not think we could be back to where we were in the past. so this went on till about a couple of weeks ago and she started acting funny again and it is hard to get her to talk to me, i finally ask her this morning why she won’t talk to me very much when i tried to talk to her her answer was i don’t know and when i do try to love on her it is a struggle and that was her biggest problem before, she just kinda kisses me fast and turns her head and tries to walk past me and she doesn’t even smile at all anymore, i can see a little bit of a change in her. I have tried to make it better but it seems to be getting worse. I have been stressed out for a while now and i don’t think i can take it anymore i try not to bring it to work, but i can’t avoid the thought of filing for divorce, i know i am not perfect, but i do try to be a good husband and father., but it is going down hill fast and she won’t go get counseling i have asked her to the first time it started to get bad we are not getting along very good and i am thinking about leaving to let her know i mean buisness… Can anyone help me?
Thanks
I am telling you guys she will not go to marrigage counsling, she doesn’t think we need it. She just acts like she has lost love for me. she said here a while back that she thinks we got married to early. She has also been married and divorced once before and ashe said it was all him so go figure. I have done so much for her for the past 2.5 yrs we have been married. I can’t get over how she is acting i even let her go out with her friends to the bar and to the mall with out asking any questions about where and when she will be back. she went out the other weekend and she got home around 5:20 A.M and i asked her just to see if she would tell the truth about when she got hom and she said about 4:00 A.M and of course i did not sayanything about her lying to me i just let it go. Maybe i amo nice and she is taking advantage of me.
Our littel girl is 18 months old and i love her to death, maybe that is some of the reason i have not left or done anything yet.

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Maddy G asked:


funny/sweet/serious…all advice/quotes/sayings/ welcome..and if you wouldn’t mind stating how long you’ve been married…thanks!!..(this is for a maid of honor speech)

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unseen7496 asked:


I am trying to get info on the process for applying for Marriage/ Single Status viva for the Chinese Cnsulate in Chicago. Is there a service that helps with the whole process?

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dreamer asked:


i woould like to read online advice for improving my marriage

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NELP G asked:


Well, I’m boring….My marriage is suffering because of this! I love my husband I don’t want to get divorce. He has friends.(women) He likes to talk with them …better than with me!! I have maybe1 or 2 friends. All my friends are in other country I don’t like to try new stuff. But I want to change. What do I do? How I start?

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Alohamylove asked:


I grew up in a conservative family, all my siblings have keep their marriage intact if not perfect. I found a partner who is not a husband-material, so to speak. I am 36 years old and so unhappy with my predicament.

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bud_s_2000 asked:


I have met a woman from the Philippines on the internet. We’ve video chatted daily for quite a while now, exchanged email, photos and talked on the phone, — we know a lot about each other. I am 66, retired, divorced with grown children. She is 53, also divorced with grown children. She holds a Masters in Public Administration and worked for 33 years as a government social worker. She will soon graduate with an RN degree — her lifelong dream. Quite an intelligent woman. We want to marry, so I plan to travel to the Philippines for her Commencement, meet her family and friends, and give her a ring. After returning to the US, I’ll file the necessary paperwork to bring her here on a fiancee visa for our wedding. She wants to work here in the medical field. We realize that love may be a gift, but marriage requires work and we are both up to the task. We would like any and all advice, pitfalls that we may encounter in the immigration process, or just comments or encouragement. Thank you.

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